I have a boring desktop and I think I'm okay with that
Every so often I wind up either reading about or looking at pictures of beautifully customized Unix desktops. These are from people who have carefully picked colors and themes, often set up a highly customized window manager environment, set up all sorts of panels and information widgets, and so on (one endless source of these is on reddit). Sometimes this involves using a tiling window manager with various extension programs. I look at these things partly because there's something in me that feels drawn to them and that envies those setups.
My desktop is unconventional, but within that
it's boring. It has colours that are either mismatched or at best
vaguely matched, various font choices picked somewhat at random,
and assorted decorations and so on that are there mostly because
they're what's easy to do in the plain old standby of fvwm. There's very little design and very little
use of interesting programs; I mean, I still use
xload, and I don't think fvwm is considered an interesting
window manager these days.
(Fvwm certainly has limitations in terms of what you can easily do in it. A dedicated person could expand fvwm's capabilities by use of modern X programs like wmutils and wmctrl, but I'm not such a person.)
I wound up thinking about this when I was recently reading another article about this (via, itself via), and this time around I came to a straightforward realization, one that I could have arrived at years ago: I'm not that dedicated and I don't care that much. My mismatched, assorted desktop is boring, but it works okay for me, and I've become the kind of pragmatic person that is okay with that.
I wouldn't mind a nicer desktop and every so often I make a little stab in that direction (I recently added some fvwm key bindings that were inspired by Cinnamon), but I'm never going to do the kind of work that's required to build a coherent custom desktop or make the kind of sacrifices required. Tiling window managers, programmable window managers, highly custom status bars, all of that stuff is neat to read about and look at, but it's not something for me. The best I'm likely to ever do is minor changes around the edges (at least until Wayland forces me to start over from scratch). And so my desktop is always going to be boring. I think I'm finally okay with that.
(There's a freedom in giving up in this sense. One way to put it is that I can stop feeling slightly guilty about not having a nicer, more coherent desktop environment, or in having something that's the kind of advanced environment you might expect a serious Unix person to have. I know this is an irrational feeling, but no one said feelings are rational.)
PS: This also means that I can give up thinking about switching to another window manager. It's quite unlikely I could find one that I want to use other than fvwm (fvwm's icon manager is extremely important to me), but I've long had the thought that there might be a better one out there somewhere. Maybe there is, but even if there is, it's probably way too much effort to switch.